A Kinder Christmas
This year, as the Christmas approaches, it does so amidst a backdrop of war, climate catastrophe, poverty, homelessness and loneliness so this year, perhaps more than ever, it's important to remember that we can spread kindness not only to our loved ones but also to others in our communities and the planet we call home.
As we wrote last week, Christmas doesn’t have to be all about giving physical gifts, it also provides an excellent opportunity to incorporate acts of kindness towards others and the climate into our festive traditions. So, let’s explore that more!
1.Smile at a stranger, on a bus, in a shop while standing in a queue, waiting at the doctors surgery, sitting on a bench watching the swans on the moat, there are ample opportunities to smile and a smile could turn to a conversation and a conversation a friendship.
“Wherever I go I consider whoever I meet to be another human being like me. We all want to live a happy life. We all respond to smiles, so wherever I go, I smile. ”
2. Offer a helping hand to loved ones during the often hectic Christmas preparations. The pressure of decorating, cooking, and shopping can sometimes feel overwhelming. By lending a hand with these tasks, we can provide much-needed respite and give the gift of time to those who may be feeling stressed or overwhelmed.
3. We’ve written before about de-cluttering, why not donate warm clothing you no longer need to a local shelter or charity shop? And Wells Vineyard are always thankful for donations of non-perishable food and furniture. Even the smallest acts of kindness can have a profound impact on the lives of others.
4. Volunteer some of your time - if you can’t do it before Christmas why not plan to start in the new year. Volunteering day at a local nursing home or hospital can bring comfort and companionship to those who may be lonely or in need of company during this time of year. Take a look at our volunteer page or check out organisation you have an interest in like Somerset Wildlife Trust, or the new local project at Kingfisher Common
5. If you are giving physical gifts remember the environment and make a sustainable gift choice. Consider opting for gifts with a low environmental impact. Choose experiential or homemade items that reduce excess packaging and waste. Alternatively, explore eco-friendly products such as reusable water bottles, organic clothing, or energy-efficient gadgets. Encouraging your loved ones to embrace conscious consumerism can inspire them to adopt sustainable practices throughout the year.
6. Try eco-friendly gift wrapping alternatives and use recycled or reused materials like newspapers, magazines, or fabric scraps. Additionally, try using natural elements such as twine, dried flowers, or sprigs of evergreen to add a touch of rustic elegance to your presents. Did we mention we are holding a wreath making workshop using sustainable foliage? Click here for more info
7. Make contact with someone you haven’t spoken to in a while. A card, a letter, a call could bring joy to their Christmas and perhaps yours too.
Just like throwing a pebble into a calm pond, acts of kindness have far-reaching effects. When you perform a kind deed, it inspires others to follow suit, creating a beautiful ripple effect of positivity. And, when you’re kind to others you do yourself the power of good too.
Research has shown that acts of kindness have a profound impact on both the recipients and the givers. Engaging in kind acts boosts neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, leading to improved mental well-being and reduced stress levels so do yourself a favour!
So, could you help us out and share your great small gift ideas and plans ? Whether it's a bit of knitting or a culinary delight ... or an idea ... or a poem ... or a performance ... please email it in and we'll share it ! Thank you.